This is terrible, the thurible can be used by anyone trained to do so. these girls need to grow up. The Archconfraternity of St Stephen allows girls to serve but this kind of nonsensical squabling should have been sorted out by their MC
the only sad part about this story is that the girl...either one....did not hit the priest over the head with it in the fracus. HE SHOULD HAVE HAD MORE SENSE THAT TO HAVE ALTAR GIRLS...ESPECIALLY OF THAT AGE.
When oh, when, is there going to be sanity in our church again!!!!!!!!